**UPDATE: We are just so happy to have all of you 20-somethings flock to requesting prayer! Our faithful God surely hears, and cares to His core! If you do not see a specific partner reply to your request, know that the LPM Staff have adopted you. We will pray for each of you, joyfully!
One of my favorite things about Twitter is that we can come to really love someone we wouldn’t have even known to like. Someone from an entirely different part of the country or the planet. Someone from a totally different tradition of our faith. Someone in another generation who serves God in a way that is fresh and exhilarating to us. I have a whole mental list of those and just this morning prayed for a number of young women that I’ve gotten to “know” there on that ridiculous stream of social media that I love. It is a young man that I’ve come to appreciate so much, however, that prompted this post. His name is Jefferson Bethke. I didn’t know anything about him until 6 months ago when Melissa, my youngest daughter, told me she enjoyed following him on Twitter. He is a great communicator God clearly has His hand upon and a poet who creates fantastic thought-provoking videos. I’m glad to have the privilege to tell you about him but that’s not why I’m bringing him up today. A week or so ago on Twitter he mentioned sitting on the airplane, moved with emotion over various testimonies he’d been reading of lives dramatically changed by Jesus Christ. It hit me right then that one of the things I loved best about him is that the young man simply has a pure heart. He just flat-out loves Jesus and loves people. It’s consistent in everything he says and writes. I felt an urgency right that moment to ask God to protect that holy passion and sustain it the length of his days.
And that’s when I thought of all of you in his same generation who really do want to honor God and fulfill the purpose for which He planted your feet on this earth.
Here’s what I want to say to you: you really can maintain a pure and fiery heart toward Christ and His mission on earth but make no mistake: you will not do it by accident.
If you want a pure heart, you better be willing to fight for it. You will not keep it any other way.
The first big relief is that we can’t conjure one up on our own. God alone can create in us a pure heart and renew a right spirit within us. (Psalm 51:10) He alone can set it ablaze with holy passion. But out of God’s sovereign wisdom, He determined that guarding the heart He formed and lit within us would, in many ways, fall to us. We’re to own part of that job.
Above all else, guard your heart,
for everything you do flows from it. Proverbs 4:23
Our second huge relief is that we can have a pure heart whether or not we have a pure past. Thank You, Jesus. If not, I and many others would be stuck for a lifetime with dark distorted hearts and deformed desires.
There are many other things more effective voices could tell you about guarding your heart toward Christ, toward people He’s sent you to serve and toward His mission on this planet. Ask them and learn from them. My purpose today is to pitch into the mix a couple of things that I’ve learned – and keep learning – in case any of it resonates with you. I also want to pray for you and call others to do the same. Here goes:
*Your heart will cool off if you do nothing to guard it. Jesus warned us in the 24th chapter of Matthew that “because lawlessness will be increased, the love of many will grow cold.” (V.12) We’re exposed to so much suffering and violence, pain, pretense, and wrongdoing in the world that, even as a defense against feeling so much, we’ll naturally thicken up. I’m certainly not suggesting we be less informed. Uninformed Christians can be a waste of light in the darkness. What I’m suggesting is that, if you want to keep a warm, feeling heart, you better be prepared to fight like mad for it.
*Over time, you can get really cynical. For one thing, cynicism can be really funny so we get drawn to it. It also tends to be cooler. You have to be willing to be one of those that the cynics could make fun of.
*You have to realize that guarding your heart means guarding its willingness to love and be exposed out there where it can get wronged or wounded. A couple of years ago I was researching God’s self-disclosure in Exodus 34:5-7 and stumbled onto something that totally changed the way I looked at guarding my heart. Here’s the segment so you can see it for yourself:
5 Then the LORD came down in the cloud and stood there with him and proclaimed his name, the LORD. 6 And he passed in front of Moses, proclaiming, “The LORD, the LORD, the compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness, 7 maintaining love…
See that word “maintaining”? It is a form of the same Hebrew term used in Proverbs 4:23 for “guarding” our hearts. In other words, a huge part of guarding my heart is maintaining love. It was a total game changer for me because somehow I had associated guarding my heart with keeping it sheltered. Try to fathom that God actively maintains His love toward us. He guards it. Using that same concept, He calls us to maintain our love toward other people. If I want to stay in love with my husband, for instance, I better actively practice maintaining it because, left to its nature, it will grow cold.
One of the things that God keeps teaching me to do is pray with everything in me and on an ongoing basis to love Jesus more than anything I can see or touch in this human realm. He promises in Scripture to grant us everything we pray in His will and in His name. (1 John 5:14-15) Since His greatest command was that we love (Mark 12:30-31), you can pray for it with absolute confidence that He’s going to do it. In fact, every time you ask God for it, go ahead and thank Him in advance that He’s going to accomplish it. He will. Then when He starts doing it, you start guarding it with all your might.
Ask Him continually to stir fire in your bones for His Word and for His mission. Ask Him to sustain it in you and teach you how to guard it through every inch of your lifespan. Only put up with a sense of spiritual flatness for a matter of days. That’s completely normal. But when it begins to turn into weeks, go face-down on that floor and ask God to give you insight into what seems off and to revive your heart. Don’t just accept coldness. Fight for love.
What is it you want from God? Pray for it feverishly! “Pursue love and earnestly desire the spiritual gifts.” That’s what 1 Corinthians 14:1 says.
Also ask others to pray these things over you. That’s what I am hoping this blog post will be about today.
Here’s what I’m asking all of you to do if you’re willing:
*Those of you in your 20’s, tell us at least your first name, where you’re from, and a little bit about you in a comment so that we can personalize our intercessions for you.
*The rest of you choose one of them to pray for (or two, if you have the time), let them know in a reply under their comment that you are adopting them for intercession for the next 14 days. Tell them where you’re from as well. I think they’ll like knowing that, too. As long as every 20-something gets signed-up for, it doesn’t matter if a number of you are praying for the same individual. If they’re like us, they’d be ecstatic to have the extra prayer covering. Pray as you feel led by God but, within that intercession, pray particularly for God to stir up and sustain a holy passion in them for Himself, His mission, and for people on this planet, and that they will be alert and proactive in guarding their hearts to last a lifetime. Ask God forthrightly to deliver them from any area of bondage, strengthen them in temptation, and deliver them from evil. Love them with all your might through prayer.
Let’s partner with this generation and intercede powerfully for them. They are the rising future of the church of Jesus Christ at this tumultuous time on the Kingdom calendar. Let’s pray them out there.
Now may our God and Father himself, and our Lord Jesus, direct our way to you, and may the Lord make you increase and abound in love for one another and for all, as we do for you, so that he may establish your hearts blameless in holiness before our God and Father, at the coming of our Lord Jesus with all his saints. 1 Thessalonians 3:11-13 ESV
PS. To our regular blog community: I put this in a comment but I’m afraid many of you may not see it.
I am grateful beyond expression for your participation on this post. Please move at the same pace that you see our 20-somethings sign up. In other words, if at our first moderation there are 15 of them, see that all 15 are spoken for then, instead of doubling and tripling up on the same small group, watch for others to be posted and claim those. Assume in about 48 hours that we’ll probably have around 80% of the 20-somethings that will end up participating. Still, check every couple of days for about a week to make sure everybody gets covered if you don’t mind. Sisters, this woman right here KNOWS how powerfully you pray. I’ve seen it. I’ve felt it. You are solid gold in the Kingdom of God! Pray for these young people like you’d want somebody to pray for your own children, whether or not you have any. Take them on as blood. Pray with faith and holy fire. Pray like the near future of the church depends on Jesus revealing Himself through them. They are so worth it. JESUS is so worth it.
I love you guys madly.
Beth
My name is Katy and I’m 21 years old. I’m a student. I want so badly to be useful and achieve what it is that God so desperately desires of our generation. At the same time, while the desires of my flesh war against what I know in my heart and my thirst for Jesus, I struggle. The struggle of being a casual Christian and a dangerous disciple for Christ. I’m single, loving life, and just want to be a light to students that I come across. Please pray that I won’t get in the way of that. I thank God for all of you who are committing to pray for us. You women are our backbone and us young people look up to you and strive to be like you. Thank you for being an example and for leading us. You’re beautiful!
Hello Katy,
My name is Keri Lee and I am in Las Vegas, NV. I will be praying for you the next 14 days and beyond to be empowered to be a light to every person you come in contact with. Keep shining girl!! You are brilliant for Him!! God is singing over you with love!! <3
22 year old living in Houston. Going through the repercussions of a break up. The Lord is teaching me so much already in this short time. May He become the foremost love of my life for the rest of my life.
I posted yesterday but did not get a reply, so I thought I would post again!
Oh precious Ally! I know what it is like to feel like no one has heard your plea and want to make sure! I am honored to pray for you, sweet one. I am old enough to be your mama at 46, and had my own set of issues following break ups in my 20’s. I will be praying for you, for your heart to be healed, and for our God to meet you in the midst of it all in a way that is unmistakably Him. May your times with Him be intimate, sweet, and completely satisfying. He is enough, and in Him you are complete. Ally, I am committed to praying for you and your needs, dear sister.
Forgot to tell you where I am from . . . I live in Moss Bluff, LA, right now. I have prayed for you and will gladly continue to intercede on your behalf daily.
Ally, praying for you and wanting you to know that you will get through these tough times if you look first to God. I made so many mistakes when I was your age and spent so many years regretting them. Those consequences still haunt me. I am praying that you will look first to God with your heart. He will put the right people in your life if you make him a priority.
I doubt I would have believed me when I was your age….and oh, what a mistake. God has plans for you. He loves you more than anyone else can. Trust in that knowledge.
I will be praying for you, from my home in Kansas! May God bless you and protect you!
Carol
Kelley, in the heart of Louisiana.
I’m 26, have been married for about a year and a half and we are expecting our first baby in July! Needing prayer for the last 3 months of my pregnancy, safe delivery and prayer as we enter into this new world of parenting. We both work in the public sector in stressful jobs, so also need prayer that we can love those well in our work place.
Kelley…
Don’t I wish I was in the heart of Louisiana right now! Sadly, I am up in Minnesota in a winter that will not let go of us! There is literally still some visible snow on the ground! BOOO!!! 🙁
I am a 40 year old mom to a 6 year old boy (his birthday is today)and a 15 month old. I was also born in July, just as your baby will be!
I struggled during my first pregnancy, so know the fear a new mom faces. I will pray for you, your husband and your baby that God will protect all of you, give you peace and bring your babe into the world safely.
God bless!!
Annie, your words brought joy to my heart! Thank you for your prayers and kind words. Means more than I can express.
Kelley
Hi Kelley. I was raised in Opelousas, La. and often visit my 102-yr-old grandmother in Mamou. I have children your age and will surely be praying for your sweet family, especially that precious baby! My 28-yr-old son and hs wife are expecting their 1st baby also ( our first grandchild). I’m a public school administrator, so I may know some of your stresses. I love how your name immediately caught my eye when I looked at the blog comments. I know He already sings over your baby, and I am praying his or her life will magnify His Name. Also praying y’all will glorify Him in seeing others like He sees them in your work places. Much love, Melanie Toups; Bridge City, TX
Thank you for the prayers and kind words, Melanie!! Oh how I covet prayers these days 🙂 Praying for you grandmother! WOW, 102!! I’m sure the stories she shares are incredible. Thank you for bringing joy to my life!
Kelley
Hi there, my name is Laura and I am 23 years old.
I’m a new wife!! And a new mom to a Puppy! And we just bought our first home together. A lot is going on and we both can get very stressed at times, I NEED prayer to be a patient loving wife at all times and not a nagging, hot headed wife ya hear me? All you wives out there know what I mean 🙂 It’s a hard change to go from single graduating college, to Married forever and ever.
Thanks in advance!
Laura, I’ve been married for 40 years and I can assure you that there were plenty of bumpy roads along the way. If you keep God in your lives, that will make a huge difference! I pray that you and your husband can take a bible study together, so you are in Gods word as you grow together.
You will always be two different people..but if you remember why you fell in love with each other and stay sweethearts forever, that will make a difference. Keep doing those sweet things for each other, leave love notes, messages on your phones, etc.
read verses from the Song of Solomon to each other…look for ways to show your love. God brought you together for a purpose. Seek out ways to serve others, then you won’t be selfish in your own wants. Laura, I learned this all the hard way. I pray you will learn it more quickly than I did! God bless.
Thank you so much for your sweet words! It is comforting to know that I am not alone in this and that marriage will have its fair shares of ups and downs. Its hard to remember that in the heat of the moment! we are actually doing a Life Group together with other younger couples that has been a complete joy!! Thank you for your words, and for your prayers!!! Keep them coming 😉
Laura,
I found a phrase in “Jesus Calling” by Sarah Younger devotional. “Pause, before responding to people or situations, giving the Holy Spirit space to act through you”. I am 64 y/o and have 2 daughters older than you. I would like to pray for you and keep in touch with you. I love it when I see young women that love the Lord. Both my daughters have strong marriages. Keep in touch….I live in Buda, Texas.
Blessings
Thank you, thank you!!! I heard the first few years are hard and then it gets easier, so I cannot wait to see what Jesus has in store for us.
Thank you!!
I’m Brandon, 27 years old from Canton, Ohio. I am a freelance designer/photographer part time and spend the rest of my time in volunteer positions, leading youth and worship ministries at two congregations (one my home church and one a new church plant for young adults), as well as writing songs and leading in different events. I have gone through a season for several years of agonizing over finding my place in the world after college and knowing I had this calling to lead worship and young people. And just recently I had a revelation that I am right where I need to be, and have been all along. So as I grow where I’m planted and embark on new opportunities with doors that have recently opened, I’m praying for that strength and fire to press on and honor God with my gifts like never before–without fear (something that has been a huge struggle for me)–and without doubt that God is directing every step.
Brandon,
As a mother of 2 daughters, also in their 20s I love to pray for young men. Substitute sons if you will. I am from the Raleigh, NC area. I will be praying for God to continue revealing Himself to you. For strength, courage and wisdom as you lead the young people He is placing in your care. Press on young man, there is much to do and through the empowerment of the Holy Spirit you can do it! I am praying Ephesians 3 over you.
Thank you! 🙂
Hi Brandon!
My name is Lisa and I am a wife a mother living out my calling full time at home right now. While we are in different situations, I can definitely relate to desiring to be in the center of Gods will, questioning His voice and being uncertain of His call! With that being said, I can also testify that He has never failed to be faithful to me and never failed to gently steer me back if I have wandered off the path of His perfect leading! 🙂 For it is to our Father’s glory that we bear much fruit, so I take comfort in knowing that He WANTS me to know His will!! He’s speaking! And He is ever so patient as we learn to hear Him! Don’t we serve just the most awesome God!
I will be praying for you dear one! We are all on this journey together and I am so thankful
our Lord has made a way for us to hold each other up through prayer!
Sometimes the hardest part is accepting that as 1Thess.5:17 puts it we are to “give thanks in all circumstances, for this is Gods will for you in Christ Jesus.”
I pray that the fire in your heart will burn like never before & that Christ’s precious voice will be heard by you in ways you have never known!
Blessings,
Lisa
Thank you!!
My name is Hannah. I’m 24 and living in the Kansas City, MO area. Since I got married 3 years ago, I have struggled with feelings of fear about having babies and being a mother, as well as anger and resentment toward family members that have not been kind to one another and allowed fractured relationships to become part of my immediate family dynamic. It has been tough, and I have clung to the Lord as my only source of sanity and calmness through a few very dark days. He has been so faithful, and I am sensing a stirring in my heart lately that it’s time to get rid of the fear, move forward with His plans for our lives, and pursue knowing and serving Jesus with all of our lives. Please pray for deliverance from my abnormal fears about childbirth and insecurity about becoming a parent. PLease pray for my husband and I to unite our hearts to fear the Lord and that we would, as Beth says, love Jesus more and more fiercely with each passing day.
Dear Hannah, I will be praying for you. I pray that the Lord will turn your eyes to Him and what His will is for you. Love in Christ Susan
Kelsey Coker- Age 22- I am one of the youth leaders of my church and love every minute that I get to spend with the kids. However, currently God has set me on a journey that will sadly alter the time I get to mentor them. Next week I will begin to undergo the process of getting a lung transplant. I have Cystic Fibrosis and my lungs have just worn out now. God is still good and faithful, though, but prayers would be appreciated!
Kelsey – I’m in my 20s but I am committing to pray for you. Nearly 3 years ago I went through a liver transplant and am still battling physical conditions. I pray that God will give you strength and peace for this difficult road ahead. He is so faithful. Please email me if you want to talk – I know how overwhelming this can be. agoodwin2010 @ gmail . com 🙂 Hope to hear from you and be able to more specifically pray for you. Love, Amanda
Hi Kelsey, I will be praying for you over the next 2 weeks. My name is Gill Ili e in the North-West of the UK in a little place called Lancaster. I’m married with 3 grown kids. What a privilege to pray for you!
Good Afternoon, Ladies! My name is Hannah and I reside in a small town just outside the capital city of Michigan. I’m 28 years old and married to a great man, Ken. I’m also a full-time social worker for a community domestic and sexual violence agency which is heartbreaking, yet rewarding work. Most recently, the Lord has been speaking to me about dreaming BIG and taking leaps with Him, specifically in the areas of getting my state social work license, running/training for new distances, as well as my writing and photography. He’s given me ideas and helped me to prioritize things to make the time and space to take the steps I need to take, and although I don’t know what the future holds, I know He’s working all things out for good. I’m really wanting to be obedient to where He is leading me in these ventures. My hope and prayer is to be a light for Him through the talents and gifts He’s blessed me with, all for His glory and delight!
Hi Hannah!
You are definitely a busy, driven woman who’s determined to follow God in everything you do! I praise the Lord that He is leading you into new ventures and leaps of faith! I have a 27-yr-old daughter who is also dreaming BIG, so I am praying that GOD will reveal His plans to you and that He will place people in your path to guide you and encourage you. 🙂 May God bless you in amazing ways! Jer.29:11
Rachelle Bull, in Ann Arbor, MI by way of Delaware.
I am a 21-year old graduate student at the University of Michigan finishing up my program in Educational Studies: Policy and Leadership in June. I am going on the World Race (missions trip) in September, but I really need guidance and direction on what I want to do with my life after that.
I welcome all prayers and encouragement. Feel free to even e-mail me at [email protected]. Thanks!
Rachelle, I have a friend who is on the World Race right now! It looks to be like an amazing journey and it has been so awesome to see God working in her life!! He can supply any need we have, we just have to ask and trust in him completely! I also know from experience how its unsettling to know what to do after graduation, but i do know that he provides. Just trust in him and He will give you more than you have ever dreamed of! I’ll be praying for you!
Commit to The Lord in whatever you do and He will establish your plans. Prov 16:3(NIV)
Heather Wyble
Texas
[email protected]
Rachelle, I’m the friend Heather was talking about! I am finishing month 8 of my Race and would absolutely love to talk with you about any questions you have or just to encourage you in any way that I can through your journey on the Race! Please let me know of any ways I can help. Praying for you, one 20-something to another! 🙂
My name is Amy and I’m a 26 years old living in Birmingham, AL. The last few years, and particularly months, have been a huge struggle for me and my husband (also in his 20’s.) He graduated from seminary in December of 2011 and we are still in the proces of looking for a full-time ministry job for him. He’s been working at our church part-time in college ministry but that seems to have no future of a full-time job for him. He has sent resumes out all over the country and no one seems to be interested. We’re feeling discouraged, overwhelmed, and confused about the direction we need to take. We desire to do vocation ministry together but God does not seem to be opening doors for that to happen. I also desire to go to seminary but it seems impossible without my husband having a full time job for financial reasons. I’m nervous that my dream of going to seminary will never happen if God doesn’t provide a full time ministry job soon.
I also used to work at our church full time in an administrative capacity and ended up leaving in the fall. It was a terribly toxic environment that built up a lot of frustration, anger, and dissapointment in me in my feelings about the church. God has been faithful to heal some of those things in my heart but I need continued and constant healing from cynicism, anger, and dissapointment.
Additonally, my mom passed away very suddenly in November and dealing with the repurcussions of that, both emotionally and logistically, has not been without great difficulty. The past few months have been some of the hardest of my life and how our church has responded to me has only built up more frustration and anger.
Thank you so much for your prayers!
Amy,
I would be so blessed to pray for you. Even as I read this post, I began to grin thinking of the glory you will give to Him, once you can see God’s faithfulness in this situation. Keep praising His name because He is so good. Please know that from Springfield Ohio, I am lifting up you and your husband. I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your mother. I am praying for His peace and understanding. Love and blessing, and thank you for sharing.
Amy, my name is Jennifer and I am from Eureka, CA and I would like to pray for you. I have been in the place you are with the church. I too worked at a church and ended up leaving hurt and broken and cynical, I also lost my Dad to cancer just before I stepped down from there and this was when I was 24. But I know that place and I feel like I know how to pray for you. Please know that God knows where you are and he sees you and he is opening doors that you can’t see and He is healing you and bringing you to a new place in His perfect time. I am praying for you!
Hi, I’m Lydia from Andalusia, Alabama and I’m 20-something (At least for a few more months. Grin.) I work in a ministry field, I’m also in seminary. There’s a particular area in my life that I need prayer over and without going into details, I’ll just say that key words I’d appreciate prayer for are endurance, clear guidance from the Lord, a clear sense of His presence, and IF IT IS HIS WILL a swift move of His hand in closing and opening some doors. Thank you so much to whomever chooses to pray for me and thank you Beth for recognizing us 20-somethings who have definite prayer needs. Thank you Thank you!
Dearest Lydia…
My name is Lynda and I’m often mistaken for “Lydia” because of the spelling of my name! So, of course, I was drawn to your request.
I so admire you for working in ministry AND going to seminary at the same time. I, too, am in ministry and know how hard it can be.
I’ll pray for your endurance, clear guidance, a sense of His presence and a swift move in opening/closing those doors if it’s His will.
Bless you, dear one.
Praying for you!
Dear Lydia, I was scrolling through the posts, looking for the next one and I found you! An Alabama girl! Awesome. I live in Gadsden. You have my commitment to pray that God will reveal Himself to you in a most significant way, where there can be no doubt, only peace. Our God’s timing is perfect. I pray that you will keep your mind steadfast on Him because of your trust in Him and He promises to keep you in perfect peace!!!! Is. 26:3. Blessings to you, girl, for your work in the ministry! Keep it flamed! I will remember you.
My name is Lindsey. I’m 29 years old, so I technically still count as being in my twenties until my next birthday. I’m a mother of three- two boys, ages 6 and 5, and a one year old girl. Although it is not something I ever expected to do, God called me to homeschool our children, one with an autism spectrum disorder.
My husband left law enforcement a few years ago to become an associate pastor at a church our family planted with two other couples. Last year, God called us to go into overseas ministry. We have gone through a year of great testing and refining. God specifically told us not to go with a organization, and for that we came under a lot of criticism and rejection in our Christian and biological families. We also went through extreme financial hardship, but we felt God was teaching us to rely entirely upon Him for provision- which He gave. Although our lifestyle was dramatically different, each time our pantry was bare, God would have a random person give us a grocery gift card, or a basket of produce. He has been so faithful.
After going through this difficult season of growth, God said it is time to break camp, just as He told the children of Israel prior to parting the Red Sea. And as we have obeyed, God has begun the miraculous. He told us that He would provide for us, and He alone would receive the glory for our ministry. We are beginning to see truly amazing, God-sized things happen, and we are so excited!
Obeying God is not the popular thing to do, but he is worth it! We are so grateful for the small group of pastors and godly friends who also believe God is able and does what He says He will do.
We would love prayer in any way, shape, or form, but especially for endurance, wisdom, faith, and our children.
Lindsey,
Your post caught me eye to pray for. I too have 3 kids, one on the spectrum and I’m beginning to lean towards homeschooling him (he’s turning 5). I will definitely pray for your children and your move overseas and all the details that must entail!
Hi Lindsey,
My name is Kelly and I will pray for you. We have a couple of things in common. One is that I have a child with special needs. He has a neurological disorder called Tuberous Sclerosis. He is 8 and is non-verbal and probably about 2 year old level cognitively. His secondary diagnosis is Autism. My husband and I also felt called to overseas ministry many years ago but that changed once our son was diagnosed at 5 months of age…too many medical complications and issues. Obviously, we were devastated and I had a friend say to me “Did God call you to live overseas, or did he call you to the nations?” So now, we are trying to live out that calling as to the nations without living overseas, at least for now. We have another son who is 4. Life is challenging, but we are pressing on! Praying for you!
Hi!
I wanted to write you to let you know that I will be praying for you! I was reading your post, and the Lord called me to homeschool our two young sons in January. Our sons are 6 and 7 and they are both on the Autism spectrum as well. They have high-functioning Autism, sensory processing issues, and some add issues. Praying God will give you peace on the days life is overwhelming, guidance when you need to make tough decisions, and comfort in knowing you are doing what He has called you to do! 🙂
In Him,
Summer, 28 from Springfield, IL
Dear Lindsey, Kelly, Melissa and Summer,
I will be praying for all four of you. God has put each of you on a journey of challenges that few will understand. All I can tell you is I have been there and that you need to believe BIG in your God and do as verse Psalm 32:8 says. I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will guide you with My eye. NKJV. God will lead you each and every step. He gave you each the children he did for a reason. Have great faith and love your God with all your heart. And when you grow tired lean in close to Jesus. I hope someday to hear about the miracles you got to see because of the children you have.
Blessings,
Linda
To Sarah R. in Gainesville, FL, and to Ivy Hussung in Boca Raton, FL – Sarah, you are the same age as my youngest daughter, and I will be happy to pray for you as you fight for those children that you love – and Ivy, you are so young to have such a call to ministry, and I know that there are so many things to consider – I will be praying for God to lead you to continue to be loving to all you meet.
I’m Maria, a 23 year old from North Canton, Ohio.
I’ve felt God’s call into medical missions, and so I’m starting a 27 month intensive Physician Assistant program in the middle of May. God has been amazing in getting me into school, making so many pieces of the puzzle fall into place, and and making His call clear to me. I know the schooling will be difficult but that He has an amazing plan.
Love your heart! <3
Hi Maria!
My husband is a Physician Assistant and is leading the medical portion of a friend’s medical mission ministry in Dominican Republic, Sending Seventy. You spoke to me! I am one week shy of 33 and I stay at home with my 2 young daughters. I am certain you are smack dab in the middle of God’s will and will feel His hand on your life as you continue your education and head into the mission field. I will commit to praying for you in the coming weeks… for peace and blessed assurance that you got this! Shine on girl… God has big plans for your life and how awesome that He has made His call so clear… and for your immediate obedience! I am so excited for your future!
Praying…
Amy, Mississippi
PS I just reread this and yes, I said smack dab. =)
This sweet post so resounded with where I am right now, and it is so encouraging to see how many others are in the same place! I’m Lantana- nearly 20 (so I dearly hope that I am close enough to count!) and posting from Norman, Oklahoma. I am currently in the middle of college, striving to persevere and finish up the end of my sophomore year. This past school year has been a struggle for me; my major threatens to drown me in projects on top of projects that have so many details I just want to close my eyes and bolt the other direction! I am afraid that I am losing the passion for my major, and I am at loss right now as to whether that is the Lord telling me He wants me pursuing something else, or the enemy dragging me down to an apathetic attitude. I want what the Lord wants me to pursue, I want to be what He has called me to be in order to bring glory to His name, and I direly need the discernment and wisdom to know what direction I should take. Thank you so very much.
Lantana,
It is my privilege to pray for you as you face these life decisions. Looking back from the other end (I’m 60:) I remember the stress of major life decisions and the value of prayer, your own as well as others praying for you. I’m the mother of 3 daughters, my youngest graduated college in Dec of 2012, so I have well-worn knees praying for girls and their life decisions! Please know I am bathing you in prayer daily:)
Hello You Darling Girl!
You are in the midst of a tremendous growth period in your life. As you grow, Christ wants to remain at the center. I pray that He will draw you unto Himself as never before, making all things crystal clear, that you will know in your core what He is calling you to do. How do you learn that?
Beyond deep prayer, you will need the prayers of others who will also intercede for you. (I get to be one of them!)
Take note of the things you love to do–your talents and abilities. How has God gifted you? Does your ambition fit with these? (If not, you may have to work harder and may not enjoy the task your hand is set to.)
Seek godly counsel from trusted adults and mature friends. What do they envision you doing?
And try to see beyond the grinding stressmill you are currently running on. Plan your time carefully. Take one project at a time, breathe deep!, and get ‘er done.(Well, rats, I sound like your mother, don’t I? Sorry – it’s the teacher/organizer in me!)
Lantana, it will be my privilege to bring your lovely name before the throne for the next two weeks – and I imagine beyond that. My name is Sue, I am a stay-at-home mom in Boise, Idaho. (In my other life, I was a teacher.) Have confidence that the God of the universe has placed His hand upon you and will provide the wisdom you seek. Much Love!!
I’m Abbey Le Roy and I live in Columbia, SC. I’m 24 years old and have been married for two years (in June). I am in my last month of seminary and will soon be out of school for the first time since being married. My husband and I are praying about our next steps, and he is pursing employment as a youth pastor. Please pray for wisdom, guidance, provision, and hearts that are set on obedience. Also please pray that this new school-free phase of life will still be a time of learning, but also a season of refreshment. Thank you so much.
Hi Abbey,I will be honored to pray for you, that God will show you in a mighty way what the next chapter of your life that he has choosen for you. I am also from Columbia SC, and I look forward to what God has planned for you and your husband as you seek his will for your future. Thanking God in advance for what he is going to show you. Praying for you dailey.
Thank you!
Hi I’m Kathleen from Birmingham, AL. I would really appreciate prayers as I learn to abide in God’s grace and mercy for me, and as I learn and practice humbly serving those around me. I would also really appreciate prayers as I face finals and end of the term projects coming up, along with other big life things going on. I need to not be anxious, but trust Him and be a good steward. Thank you all so much, it truly means so much to see the body supporting each other this way!
Sweet Kathleen,
It will be my honor to pray for you for the next month and longer, baby sister. Abba is so awesome with His grace and mercy over flowing!! I adore your humble and loving heart. He will always hide you beneath His wings of tender mercy and surround you with His love. I am so thankful to Christ for His perfect humility and obedience. What a wonderful Savior we have!! I will be praying for wisdom, knowledge, discernment, and of course, energy for your up coming trials. Can’t wait to meet you in Heaven. Praise is Precious Name!!
Hello, my name is Jessica, and I am from College Station, TX. I will be 28 tomorrow. I am a wife and a mother of 3 /12 year old Ethan, 6 month old Kaelynn and two angel babies. I have been struggling to get out of a deep dark pit for the better part of my 20’s. My childhood was consumed by taking care of my chronically ill mother and watching helplessly as my younger sister battled leukemia. I was bullied cruelly in school. In the last 3 years I have been pregnant 4 times. Two miscarriage in a row landed me in a depression that has left me struggling for a breath of peace. The birth of my daughter 6 months ago took the pain away, but the heartache remains. I feel like the waves keep pounding me and I am hanging on, trying not to be totally consumed by grief and loneliness. I used to be vibrant, active, passionate, and motivated. Nothing could stand in my way. Now, I don’t even recognize myself. I have built walls so thick around my heart to protect it from feeling pain that I hardly feel anything at all.
I don’t know what to ask for. I covet your prayers!
Jessica, I will be praying for the Lord to tear down the wall that you have built around your heart with His Love. Take comfort in the fact that your two little ones are in Jesus’s arms. Love in Christ Susan
Jessica, I will stand in the gap and pray for you. You may not know what specifically to ask for in prayer, but our God knows. He hears the whispers of your heart and already has answers for what we will pray. My name is Jill. I have been where you are and I know God is faithful.
Jessica,
If I could reach right through this computer screen and hug you, I would. My heart is breaking for you. I, too am a mommy and have two babies that have gone to meet Jesus. I can so relate to some of the feelings you are having. I pray that you will find a small amount of comfort knowing that from Springfield, Ohio, I am lifting you and your family to the feet of Jesus. I will pray that God restores to you a sense of belonging and comfort and peace, which only He can bring. Aside from all of things you shared, I know you must be incredibly busy as well! I am praying that God will show His face so clearly in ways that you could not have imagined. I will be praying that you will find a tiny bit of time each day to spend with Our Redeemer. Love and blessings from Ohio!
Jessica,
I will be praying for you. My prayer and hope is that God will be your light in dark places. I will also be praying for your family. These things that effect you also have an impact on them. Isa. 26:3 says ” You will keep in perfect peace him whose mind is steadfast, because he trusts in You”. Isa. 53:10 ” Though the mountains be shaken and the hills be removed, yet my unfailing love for you will not be shaken, nor my covenant be removed, says the Lord who has compassion on you”.
Jessica,
It’s an honor to pray for you. I’m the mom of 6- my 17 year old son, my 6 year daughter, and 4 sweet babies waiting in heaven. I know your pain. I know what it’s like to hold a child and yet have your heart ache for what you’ve lost. And let me tell you that I KNOW what it feels to be whole and healed again. It can happen. God will give you beauty for ashes. He keeps His promises, and I commit to pray for you as you seek Him in that.
I lived for years angry, sad, bitter, wandering through life. I’m back in the game, excited abotu what is in my future. I’ve been back for several years now, and it’s beautiful.I still think of my unborn babies, wonder what they would have been like, but I truly can now celebrate that they are with my HEavenly Father. I’m okay, and you will be too.
I’m 40, by the way,and I can tell you that there’s a LOT of life left in store!
email me at [email protected] if you want to chat more!
Blessings!
Holly~
Hi Jess!
Your story truly stirred my heart and I will pray for you! Sending my love and prayers as a fellow sister-in-Christ. I pray God will give you His light and healing in your heart so that you may love well and live out the fully vivacious life God has for you. He has given you such a story and I pray that your testimony of God’s love will touch the hearts of others. God is so faithful. May we ask him to heal your sweet heart.
Much love from San Diego, CA
Jessica
My name is Erin and I am 28 from Bellingham WA. I have been married for 3 years and we are struggling. There have been some issues that I have blamed completely on my husband without taking responsibility for my end of things. God has been showing my recently how much of my life I live in fear and how it affects my husband and my marriage. Some of my fears are justified, but most aren’t when I consider God’s faithfulness. This post spoke exactly to where I am in my walk to Jesus and my relationship with my husband. Thank you for your prayers.
Erin- I’m adriane from Dallas tx and will be praying for you! I’m 38 and have been married 15 years with two beautiful girls- but we’ve struggled in the past much to the same reasons you’ve described.
Erin- I am praying over you and your husband. It is often too easy to place blame on someone and not take any yourself. I admire you for realizing your responsibility in the events that have taken place.
I am praying that you and your husband will realize your love and the need to place God first in your own lives. Then, you can truly work on healing.
My name is Courtney, I’m 21 and living in Northwest Arkansas. I am a full time student, a part time worker at a daycare, and a volunteer (soon to be intern) in the youth ministry at my church. I teach a group of beautiful and Christ-seeking 9th grade girls every Sunday. This blog has just overflowed my heart with joy and I cannot express how much it has nailed how I have been feeling lately. There is so much cynicism around me lately and I just want to know the love of Christ and to be able to share it with others. However, the cynicism seems to come easier most of the time. I pray that I can maintain a love like God does for us!
Courtney, I’ll be praying for you-that His love for you will be revealed in ways you will not expect-and that you will be at ease in sharing with what He is doing in your life. You are going after God and His plan for you, and He is faithful – and a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him. Oh, and the mama in me will pray that you do well in school, get plenty of rest(working and school is a lot) and that you eat well:))
My name is Kinsey, I’m 25 years old. After graduating with a degree in Christian Ministry almost 3 years ago I find myself working in the mundane day to day life at a bank. Moved back in with my parents and just trying to “make it.” I’ve been searching and apply for jobs and i know I’m called. But through the rejection, doubt and bitterness have rooted themselves deep into my heart. I find myself not trusting God – having a hard time seeing who I am and knowing who I am over how I feel. I feel burdened by how society views me, I feel forgotten by God.
I know he is soverign, I know he is good. I know that he weeps along side me.
Oh, sweet, sweet Kinsey! My heart cries right along with you because I have walked in your shoes of bitterness and doubt, hearing the enemy’s voice much louder than my Lord’s voice. Knowing you have been called by God, doing all the preparation work needed to get there and then just having to wait…. it really hurts and is so frustrating. BUT Jeremiah 29:11 promises that God knows the plans He has for YOU – plans to prosper and not to harm you, plans to give HOPE and a FUTURE! Hang on – delve into God’s word and drown out the voice of Satan. Turn up your favorite Christian music and drown out the voice of Satan. Fellowship with believers and pray with them for their needs, taking your focus off your hurts for just a minute and it will DROWN out the voice of Satan! And them, when you are all alone without distractions, and Satan threatens to rear his ugly head again, read Psalm 139, over and over and over again until it soothes your heart (and it will!) You are a beautiful, chosen daughter of the King and He is faithful to see you through this time. I will be praying for you, sweet friend. Return to the joy of your salvation and just rest in Jesus’ arms for a while. Praying you through this storm, Jeanne
Hi Kinsey! Im Kari and I live in Easter Oregon. I am a mother of 3 grown children ages 25 to 30 and would be blessed to add you to my prayer list. Remember always that You are the daughter of the King and He is constantly singing over you. I know its hard when things dont look like we want them to but continue to press into Him and He will lead you to those open doors and the perfect job for you. Remember that sometimes things dont work out for us because they are not the best for us. Since you are going through the doubts and rejection, I believe that your breakthrough is coming! Dont let the enemy come in and take your joy! For you are His treasure and He does have a future and a hope for you my sweet young lady!
I ask that God would wrap His loving arms around you and hold you tight! That He would show Himself strong on your behalf and infuse you with His strength…for when we are weak, He is strong! I pray against the enemy that is coming into your thoughts to try to discourage you and I bind them in the name of Jesus. Fill Kinsley’s heart with Your joy and give her the courage to do what she needs to do, wrap her with Your armor…the belt of truth, breastplate of righteousness, helmet of salvation, shield of faith and may she swing that sword of the Spirit which is Your Word! May You move in mighty ways on her behalf Lord and make Yourself so real to her that the enemy can stand no chance against her in any way! Give her wisdom and direction and may she find favor in Your sight and all those she comes into contact with! In Jesus precious Mighty name Amen and Amen
Dear Kinsey,
You are a Daughter of the Most High, please don’t let that statement in fact leave
your mind. You have been known by Him before the foundation of the Earth!
Please know that I have put you into my prayer notebook and will be praying for your
heart and mind to be saturated with the Love of Jesus Christ. He is so faithful and I know this by experience, sweet one do not ever forget that He loves you so much.
May the blessing of the Lords presence be so tangible you feel the weight of his arms holding you.
http://livingandlovinglikejesus.blogspot.com/?m=1
Kinsey,
Hi! My name is Summer and I’m 28 from Illinois. I wanted to share this with you. God helped me work through feeling forgotten with this. <3
Dear Kinsey,
I read your post and know you have several people praying for you. I wanted to post to give you a word of encouragement. There are many small churches that need people to serve, so don’t give up. It might not even look like a paying job but God will provide. Don’t give in to the idea that every ministry position has to be big or come with an income. Keep searching for God’s place, He will show you in His timing.
I’m Amanda from Ohio. Im 25. After a broken engagement (and nearly another), I’m single. Due to health obstacles such as a liver transplant and car accident, I’m still in school pursuing nursing and public health. I’m a nanny and love to travel. I was raised in a Christian home with a large support system but I’m one of those “silent sufferers.” You would never know any of my past by looking at me.
I feel like my goals and purpose are so far out of reach. I am high-stress and Type A. I have a 4th surgery taking place this summer to remove adhesions from my previous scars that have been cut through multiple times. It’s hard to work or finish school when life just doesn’t go as planned. I feel too scarred to be worth much and I end up feeling frustrated and overwhelmed. I would cherish your prayers for strength, purpose, guidance and peace.
Dear Amanda,
I am very sorry for the health concerns and can easily see how it is mounting up. I am very excited to be praying over you in the upcoming days. Those who seem to face the toughest obstacles with the most resistance seem to emerge with the tenderest of hearts to those who have been broken along the way. I know the Lord will grant you peace for your heart and mind, strength and stamina for each new challenge, His wisdom for the steps you need to take and the promise of His own company along the way.
My name is Bonnie. My four children are grown. I have been in ministry for many years but probably my favorite delight has been to be a part of a small group of 20’s somethings for the past 10 years. We have grown together, faced the unique demands of the 20’s–education, career choices, marriages, broken hearts, birth of children, etc. So, I realize how daunting the 20’s can seem and how very critical these years are for life.
Got cha’ covered, Amanda. So thankful to partner with the Lord in prayer for a special treasure named Amanda. Praying…
Hi! My name is Helen, I’m 25 years old, I live in Leeds, England. I work as a physiotherapist (or physical therapist), at the moment I’m questioning where God wants me. Does he want me to move back to Wales to be near my family or to continue living in Leeds and serving Him here x
Hi Helen! My name is Laura and it is my honor to pray for you. I am 50 years old and I live in Indiana USA: )
God is so faithful and I will help carry your concerns to Him. It is difficult to make life’s decisions on your own. Our Lord will show you the way. Praying for you, sister!
Hi, my name is Rachael. I am 26 and currently live in Tulsa. Life right now is full of transition and seasons of change, which is hard for me. My husband and I have been married for 1.5 years, he is a full-time Law student, which has put me in the position to provide for our family while he gets through school. Law school brought us to Tulsa, away from family and dear friends back in Texas. We have a 3 year-old foster daughter that came in to our lives in March. We are far from family and are still new to Tulsa. As I read this, I had goosebumps to realize that indeed there are sisters in Christ who would gladly choose to pray over me and for me and with me. What a beautiful picture of the Body of Christ. Bring on the prayers as I choose daily to “fight for love.” Humbled and grateful.
Hi Rachael!
My name is Valerie & I live in Oklahoma too.
I am honored to pray for you. As I was reading your post, right before I got to the part where you had goose bumps, I did too! The Body of Christ is amazing & it’s so beautiful to encourage and lift up those who are in need.
I have a daughter a few years older than you & I know how hard it would be if I lived very far from her. It’s difficult to be away from family & friends. Draw close to God during this time ~ cling to Him & His Word. I’ll be praying that you will find a good church (if you haven’t yet) and that God will send special Christian friends to you and your husband. I’ll also be praying that God will give you extra strength & patience to handle your responsibilities while your husband is in law school.
Thank you for the love & care you are giving this precious little 3 year old foster daughter. Take care, Rachael and know that God has very great things in store for you and your family.
P.S. I’m coming to the LPM event in Tulsa in Sept. : )
Rachael,
I know this is really late and you might not see it, but I wanted you to know that I also am in Tulsa, OK and I am part of a church that loves being a family to the lonely and loves foster care and loves the Word of God. It’s called Springs of Grace Bible Church, and if you ever visit, let me know. I’m the tall girl with dirty blonde hair on the front row with a couple of random and racially diverse children worshipping beside me. 🙂
My name is Temeka Wilson and I am 29 years old – just made the cut off! 🙂
I have been married for 5 years and have a one year old daughter. We recently left our church home (the church that I gave my life to God) and I’m having a hard time dealing…We did a lot for the ministry and now that we have yet to find a new church home, something is missing for me. I feel like my relationship with God is suffering as a result and I don’t know what to do. As someone who would consistently attend prayer, bible study, led praise and worship, i feel like a fish out of water. I KNOW that God is the most important thing in my life, but not sure how to get that feeling back…don’t really know what i’m requesting prayer for, but I know i need it…
Temeka,
My name is Valerie & I live in Oklahoma. Your post was just below Rachael’s that I had chosen to pray for and I want to let you know that I will be praying for you as well. I am praying that you will find a new church to attend that is full of encouragers & a pastor who preaches the Word of God in a way that will bring life back to you. Satan wants us to shrink back & my prayer for you is that you will be so encouraged today & that you will know that whatever happened in the previous church, that you will know God has something really great in store. None of this was a surprise to Him & He will get you through this. I pray that any hurts will be healed. Draw close to God during this time & know that He is on the throne making intercession for you & your family. God bless you! I’ll be keeping you in my prayers.
Hi! My name is Yana. I’m 23, from North CA and am graduating from college in a month. Really excited about where God is leading me. Lately I’ve been simply praying His promises over me, believing He will provide, believing He will continue to sustain me. I need to trust Him more with my heart and with the unknowns. He is faithful.
Those of you in your 20′s, tell us at least your first name, where you’re from, and a little bit about you in a comment so that we can personalize our intercessions for you.
My name is Meggie Burke and I’m 22 years old living in Morgantown, West Virginia. I’m graduating this August but October 2nd, 2012 I knew God was telling me to stay here at West Virginia University (The biggest part school in the U.S.) to reach girls for Jesus. I volunteer with a ministry called YoungLife and we just started a younglife college here at WVU a few years ago. It is blowing up and this year we had over 100 kids come to our meetings and hearing about Jesus.
As I stay here the next year I am still hoping for a job that I know the Lord will provide. I currently have a job at a daycare that I can work 40 hours at but I am interviewing a 2nd time on April 30th @2pm at WVU’s hospital to work in the neonatal section as a unit clerk. I almost come to tears every time I think about working in this area because I as a baby was born with a birth defect and heard all the horror stories from my parents of how they were treated by hospital staff in the midst of not knowing if I would live. I would love this job (if the Lord wills) it to be able to love and comfort parents, families, and infants through the good and bad times of having an infant in the hospital.
Next Wednesday, I am also giving my first Jesus talk at a dinner for YoungLife. I am talking about how Jesus is like a dad. Giving examples of how lovely my dad was/is and telling how Jesus is an even better dad. And he can fill that void of the fatherless bc he is so lovely.
Beth, this post was very encouraging and I thank all the women who are praying for girls in their 20’s and just our generation in general 🙂
philippians 1:3 Thank you!
Hi, Meggie 🙂
I think your name is sweet…but your heart is sweeter! I can tell by your caring words regarding the college girls and the babies. I’ll be praying for you to finish your degree well and for your eyes to be open to the doors that God would have you walk through. I also will pray specifically for you on the 30th at 2:00 as you interview for that job you desire…praying that, above all, God’s Will be done and that His Name is glorified! Praying the same for you on the 1st as you share with others about our Loving Heavenly Father, that your words and your thoughts will be pleasing to Him. That it will not be about you, but ALL ABOUT HIM! I’m twice your age, sweet girl, (at least in my body!) My mind thinks I’m about 25. 🙂
Anyway, I’m living in Carlisle, PA, not really all that far from you. Know that you are being lifted before the throne of our God who highly esteems you and has a plan that is good for your life! You have been placed where you are according to His Good Will. Trust Him…He is SO very Faithful!
With love from your sister in Jesus,
Tatia
Katie, 22 years old from Virginia but about to move to Indonesia.
I am going to be a missionary and with that comes intense spiritual warfare. Please pray that I would trust God to provide the finances to go and to guard me from the attacks (spiritual, physical, mental, and emotional) while I’m there. Indonesia is a predominantly Muslim country and their Islam is mixed with a lot of witchcraft. Needless to say there will be some hard core spiritual battles being fought and I need all the prayer I can get! Thanks in advance for the prayer!!!
Hi, Katie!
I’m also in my 20’s, but with a huge heart for missions and wanted to lift you up in prayer! I’m praying now that Jesus would begin to go before you as you prepare to serve. I would absolutely love to know details of your trip! Email me at [email protected] and tell me more! 🙂 🙂 In the mean time, I’m praying for provision, wisdom, and discernment as you prepare to go. I’m asking Jesus to give you an incredible ability to communicate and connect with the Indonesian people. I’m asking His spirit to grow within you and prepare you for the spiritual warfare that will be present. Love you, sister! Hope to hear from you soon!
My name is Josie, I am 27 years old and I am from Oregon. I am newly married (just shy of a year) to a wonderful man (truly a gift from God). No kids yet but 2 wonderfully joyous dogs! So I graduated from college back in 2008 with a degree in Agriculture and have been working for the Government ever since. I am very thankful for my job and what God has provided for me through it, but I am a creative person and am not allowed to express that in my career and because of that I am struggling (battling) to enjoy my job and serve God in my workplace in a way that is glorifying to Him. God did not build me to sit at a desk all day and yet that is what I am doing. A fire has been lit inside me to be praying about the next step towards a new direction and I am excited but scared at the same time. I must remain open to God’s will even if that means I stay at this career for another season or two.
HI Josie!
I am 30 from Pennsylvania. I would LOVE to pray for you, it would be an honor. I can relate to how you are feeling in your job, I am there too!
I know it is not easy – but place your faith in the Lord and keep your eyes and heart open to see where He is guiding you. I pray you can continue to honor him in your current job, while keeping an open mind about what God has planned for you. Remember that God’s timing is perfect, even if it doesn’t feel like it in the moment.
And while you wait – LOVE your husband, enjoy the time with your dogs, and Praise God for all he has given you. Hang in there Sister, He will guide you to where you are meant to be <3
Thank you so much Corrine!! Your words of encouragement have been such an encouragement!
Ashley – Texas – 24
Single. Lonely. Depressed. Fighting for purity in a culture that hates it. Need a fresh dose of Jesus.
Oh Ashley….I feel you girl !!! Staying pure is not easy but it is so vital !! Don’t let your feelings drive your emotions. Use truth….God’s truth to fight the enemies attacks and lies. I am divorced and know the struggle to drown out the lies the enemy whispers in our ears about who we are and he tries to define us. Don’t listen….hide Gods’ word in your heart….read in His word about how much he loves you and desires you and has plans for you !!! Fight for His love !!! Fall in love with Jesus all over again. Start counting the blessings He places in each day….the gorgeous sunrise, spring breezes, a new day….etc. I am praying for you.
Hi, my name is Erin! I’m from Little Rock, AR. I have about a million words and thoughts to say right now and I’m working feverishly to narrow them down. Otherwise you would get an essay (or thesis) about my life. I’m in the midst of something big in my life, I really don’t know what all it is about – but I know God’s up to something great! This post felt like it was written for me.
The past few weeks I felt so distance from Him – that burning excitement inside me was gone. I didn’t know why, I was doing my devotional, I was being obedient. Then on Sunday, my pastor preached about fear. Fear is something I’ve been struggling with the past few months with a personal relationship. I felt God pushing me to pursue this relationship with strength and faith, but the past few weeks I felt so lost. I lost my strength, I was confused and scared. I thought, “Maybe I was wrong. Maybe God wasn’t directing me to pursue this with faith. Maybe I’m just crazy. Lord, please let me know. Lord, you KNOW how I am. I need a slap-in-the-face sort of sign. I’m weak, Lord. I need a plain-as-day sign. I’m not saying I don’t have faith in YOU. I’m saying I don’t have faith in me.”
So, back to the service on Sunday – I was diligently taking notes during the service. I barely had time to even process it all as he spoke, I knew it was for me and I needed everyone ounce of every message, every syllable of every word. On Sunday, our pastor said that fear can interfere with your relationship with God. It hit me then – that’s why I was growing cold, confused, and felt so desolate. So, I prayed and gave my fears over to Him (and I’ve had to re-give a lot of times… oh the control freak that I am!) I can’t remember precisely what was said, but I remember the pastor mentioning that even if something was prophesized for you, it won’t happen if you don’t walk in the prophecy. (Referring to my personal relationship.) So, that night after doing my devotional (about contentment and removing things from life that don’t add value), I prayed and talked to God about everything. I told him how I envisioned events and that’s what I prayed for. As I was giving The Lord my play-by-play, I was hit with a breath-taking (literally… my breath was taken away), jolting, vivid image of the man in my relationship. I was startled, because it wasn’t like it was from my mind, it was like it was placed in my mind as I was talking. Immediately I burst in to tears.
That night I didn’t sleep well at all – I even woke up at 3:30 am. Honestly, I can’t remember what happened on Monday. I remember I was so busy and exhausted. I just went through my normal work day and chaos of single parenting. Of course I was fearful all day, but I kept busy with busy work. I did what my devotional had said – I looked at my week, set aside a weekly time for rest/worship, and made a list of things that consume my life but add no value. Checkmark, done. Monday night I settled in to bed with my devotional (I should add that I read it at night, so I can start the next day with the full she-bang). I was praying and reading and still feeling lost, I didn’t know why the sermon etc and handing over my fear didn’t “light my fire.” The next morning (yesterday), I was showering and I began crying asking God for help. Then it hit me. I’d forgotten the vision. I was so busy, consumed with myself, my day, and probably distracted by the enemy, that I had plum forgotten the vision that the Lord planted in my head. Now, how does one simply “forget” what the Lord showed? I don’t have a clue. I was stunned with myself, too! Then I realized I needed to set aside time for HIM, daily. Not just my devotional, I need to be in the word, read the word, study the word. I’d gotten lazy about that, and I would read my devotional and the scripture associated with it. I didn’t do my own reading. I am happy to say that since yesterday, “I’m back!” That’s what I told Him, too. I’m PRETTY sure the Lord thinks I’m funny at times (when I’m not questioning Him or being disobedient). I’ve been on fire and excited. I LOVE starting my day asking him “what are we doing to do next??” I absolutely can’t wait. I love that my fire isn’t just because of my personal relationship that needs mending (or miracles), but my fire is for Him and His good works. It’s amazing how fulfilling one can be by just knowing and doing, whereas 2 years ago I wouldn’t be fulfilled unless I knew what was in it for me.
I’m sorry… that was my “little bit about myself.” It was long, but I had to share what I could. There’s much more to it all, but you got an excerpt!
Oh, I forgot to add that I’m 29.
Hi! I am a fiery passionate 26yr. old girl, I am a visionary with many dreams, never dated, desiring and believing God for my husband! My heart is to continue to walk in purity and in love! For increased hope to believe in the One who loves me, to remember and recall his faithfulness and to be empowered with JOY and HOPE in the one who holds my hands, and future! Some mornings I just struggle to get up, keep pressing on and believing His will is good, he’s not holding back, that my fire or passion is too intense! Just desiring to keep pressing on and eagerly wanting to keep my heart open not closed in fear to receive the promise! To keep trusting! Keep believing! Keep hoping! Thank you SO soooooo much for your prayers! They are an answer to my hearts cry this morning!!!!! Thank you Lord! I am from Salem, Oregon, previous missionary with a heart for nations, children, and marriage, but currently working 8-5 in a law office.
Hi, my name is Caitlin from North Carolina and I am currently 21 and will be finishing up with my college career in December 2013. Next month I will be traveling to Haiti to spread the love of Christ and share with the people that we ALL are poor and in a great need of a Savior. I ask for boldness and courage from the Lord to proclaim His Gospel. Specifically, I am unsure of what my future will hold after college (pretty much, I don’t know what I’m going to do with my life, lol! *Insert major freak out*) I know that the Lord is SOOOO faithful, so please be praying that He sustain during this time of waiting and that I clearly hear His voice and direction in my life.
Thank you ladies so much for praying and I will be praying for you also. Through this may the Glory of our Sovereign God be put on display
Kelsey, 24 yrs old Wichita, KS
Getting ready to graduate from physician assistant school, have a passion for leading worship and singing. Wondering, praying about where I am going to end up (single, no immediately family are Christians, job availability not great where previous community is located). I’ve fallen into overanalyzing the future, and I have begun to see cynicism come up in me even as a student. Its frightening…I don’t want that characteristic. I need ROCK-SOLID community wherever God puts me…so that I am profoundly satisfied in Jesus Christ so I can TRULY love the world…cause its so. rough.
Thank you so much for your prayers….
My name is Katie and I am 20 years old. I am from Houston, but currently live in Waco where I attend Baylor University. About a year ago, I felt God call me to ministry and as I have continually pursued God’s plan, He has given me such a great passion for working with youth. Throughout this semester, I have struggled with feeling inadequately prepared for the work He has called me to. However, in a way that only He can, He has told me to stop doubting His plan and simply trust Him. I would love prayer as I strive to be the woman He created me to be. Pray that I would trust Him in every aspect of my life. As this semester is coming to a close and summer is quickly approaching, I would also love prayer for my summer plans. Pray that He would provide the perfect jobs and housing, and that I would be fully dedicated to the work He places before me.
Hi,
My name is Erin, I am 26 years old. I am the secretary at my church in California. I will be moving to Texas in the next couple of months. My husband and I started praying in January that God would lead us to wherever He would have us be. Two weeks ago my husband got a job in Texas. We have been struggling to find work in California. Now my husband has a good job and excellent opportunities for advancement. We pray that wherever we go God would use us to witness to the lost. Thank you to whoever prays for me! God Bless you.
Erin, I will be honored to pray for you! As a native Texan I say, “HOWDY!” 🙂 I welcome you to the Lone Star State and will pray for the blessing of your husband’s new job and prayers for a speedy and peaceful move. I can relate because my family is moving for my husband’s new job. Granted that we are only moving 2 hours away versus your move from California, but a move is a move, right? 🙂 I am 34 years old with 2 little boys, 6 and 3 years old, so I will be packing up a lot of hot wheels and transformers 🙂
I pray that God will put his hand on your family’s life and guide you to be the inspiration to those around you in your new home and that your new neighbors, friends, and church family will be able to see Jesus just by looking at you. God bless you and I will be praying for you.
My name is Dani. I am from a small town in Nebraska. I am going to school at a Christian College in Colorado. I am a junior majoring in Social Science and getting an emphasis in Global Studies. I have a passion for helping those living in poverty. I hope God will use me to leave an impact on many people’s lives both internationally as well as on those I encounter daily. It is my prayer that God would shine through me and the way I love others. This is something I am trying to be much more intentional about. I want so desperately to live with a pure heart like Beth explained. I really want my life to be a reflection of Christ. I am encouraged my this blog to fight harder than ever for this. I greatly appreciate your prayers and your coming alongside me to help me accomplish this.
Hi Dani!
I too am from a small town in NE, but now I live in Greenville, SC. It is my honor to lift you up to the Lord in prayer. I pray that you will hunger and thirst for God everyday of your life. I pray for wisdom to recognize His voice…to hear how He loves you and desires that love to flow though you to the people around you, as well as those abroad. Fight the good fight, Dani! Love God and love people!
Hi Ladies!
My name is Summer Black and I am 28 years old. I currently live in Springfield, IL, but will always be a Texas girl at heart. I have been married to my wonderful husband Ben for a little over 9 years now, and the Lord has blessed us with two sweet boys. I wake up every morning determined to live and love like Jesus,I miss my family and the state of Texas so much it hurts, love horses, people, and singing,and long to fulfill the role God has for me in His beautiful story.
Some areas for prayer in my life:
1)My immediate family. We have been faced with the challenge of multiple mental issues in our household, but praise the Lord He has been so gracious to guide us through them. It gets extremely exhausting, so prayers for strength, wisdom, and continued guidance would be wonderful.
2)Our extended family. I have a sibling who will be released from prison soon, and we have several family members with health concerns. AND we live far away from all of them.
3)I long to write, speak, and be involved in women’s ministry. Please pray that I will be still and know that God is Who He says He is, and that I can hold to the promise in Jeremiah 29:11.
4)The City of Springfield. By the grace of God I have been given the opportunity to join the Beth Moore Conference team for our city. The community being formed here is amazing, but there is still much to be done for Springfield. Please pray for Beth, Travis, this conference, and our team’s efforts as we continue to go out and love people to Christ.
I thank you all for praying, and will make myself available to talk and pray for you as well!
In Him, Summer <3
Good morning Summer,
My name is Jenny and I live in Combined Locks, WI. I have two beautiful children, an amazing husband, and definitely have persevered through trials because of God. I would love to pray for you; it would be an honor.
God bless you and your family,
Jenny
Thank you so much Jenny! Nice to “meet” you! 🙂
Hi! My name is Alycia, I live in Greenville,TX and barely make the cut at 28! ;). I am so grateful for you Beth and all the amazing sisters praying, and who doesn’t love a little extra prayer covering!
I have 4 girls…6, 5, 3 and 1. And we just got a dog, Thor (trying to balance the male to female ratio a bit). My husband and I of 7 1/2 years are worship leaders at our church and have a passion for leading Gods people into His presence. Any prayers are so gratefully received but I truly want the passionate, pure heart that chases after God and overflows with His love for people. My biggest thing is feeling so overwhelmed with wife-mother-housekeeper duties and not making the time for study and even just prayer time. I want to guard my heart and maintain that fire in my bones. Thank you, in advance!!! 😉
Hi Alycia!
I have a 25 year old daughter named Alyssa — probably pronounced differently than your Alycia, but it caught my attention. I will be delighted to pray for you and your family! I live way up north here in Minnesota — we finally had 70 degrees today 🙂 It’s been a long, cold spring. Anyways… I have been in the overwhelmed place of wife/mom/homemaker, and it can be so hard to connect with God then! Know that God’s grace is with you always (2 Cor. 9:8 NIV)for all that you need. Just remember that God may have different ideas than you do about what you need. God’s love and grace are so faithful — you can trust that in every situation!
God bless you with His joy, today and every day!
Thank you so much Karen! I forgot to follow my comment so I just found this. It makes me smile to know you’re praying for me, truly. Thank you for your encouragement, It’s what Gods been whispering in my ear the last few days, reminders that He gives us grace for each day. There is enough. Everyday :). T
Blessings!!
My name is Haley. I am 25 years old and I live in Alabama. Since graduating college 3 years ago, I have been working at the same place. I am not happy with my job, and I am having a hard figuring out what I want to do next, and I question why God hasn’t opened up a new opportunity for me. I also have some problems in my personal life. I won’t go into detail, but I am having a hard time making a huge decision.
I ask that you pray for my relationship with the Lord to strengthen and that he will guide me. I know he has plans for me, it’s just hard to see that right now.
Hi there! I’m Hannah and I live in Southwest Ohio. I currently work in the financial world, but am finishing my bachelors in Bible(does not make sense to be either ;-). One of the greatest joys of my life has been volunteering with my local church’s youth group. I have been a leader for several years and also lead a junior high girls small group.
The greatest struggle for me right now is: what now? I feel like I’m at a plateau with the Lord. We’ve reached a good place and it’s time to move on, but I have no clue what that ‘moving on’ entails.
As a side note, Miss Beth, it has never occurred to me in the nearly 14 years that I have been a believer to ask the Lord to help me love Him more. Never. That was a revelation. Did it just this morning in my prayer time. He smiled, I’m sure of it. Thank you for that gift.
Hannah
I’m Valerie! 23- and trying to find my place in the world. Just left my parents house for my own place. Slightly scared but mostly excited. My deepest desire is to know God in a personal and intimate way- but I struggle deeply with unbelief. I feel a disconnect between us no matter what i try or what i pray. One of my biggest struggles right now is not knowing my “calling” or what I want to do in life. I have a great Job that I love doing but the atmosphere is totally toxic and unhealthy. I am completely devalued as a woman and as a person and constantly disrespected by old creepy men. I’m a marketing rep. It completely changes my perspective on men and relationships. All of your prayers are honored and loved. Thank you 🙂
Nadine living in Cleveland, TN.
Called to Missions and willing to go wherever he sends me.
Our family of 3, praying we make a mark in history for our King!
Committed to guard and maintain our love until that last day!
Hi Kinsey,
I am from Somerville, TN and I will pray for you. I am sorry you are discouraged. You are right – God is good. He has plans for you – to prosper you and not to harm you. Don’t let the enemy keep you defeated with doubt and bitterness. It is very easy to fall into this place, and I commend you for your honesty. We have all been there. As women, we do follow our feelings often in spite of what we know about who we are in Christ. I have found Beth’s “Believing God” mantra (if you will) to be empowering in my life as a believer. We must believe God is not only who He says He is, and that He can do what He says He can do, but also that we are who He says we are and we can do what He says we can do! It seems you have prepared to serve Him, and He is faithful. I believe He will honor your efforts. He has not forgotten you, girlfriend! He loves you. I have also found that persistent gratitude will help rid me of the influence of the enemy. I will be praying that you will soon find a job that will fulfill your every desire and more so that you can be a bright light in His kingdom work. Love in Him,
Tanya
I’m a 24 year old Coast Gaurd wife. I’m originally from Ga but we are currently stationed in Lake Charles. I work with 14 one year olds at a preschool. I have grown up in church- a youth pastors kid- my husband and I attend a church down here. I have seen The Lord answer a lot of prayer requests pertaining to my marriage and my husband. I recently have been feeling dry and far from God though. I have made it a point to spend time with Jesus this week because I know I need to maintain my love and relationship with him. I am committed to going to the country of Panama this June to help build homes for the indigenous coffee farmers and their families. I am trying to raise support and trusting God for the courage to speak about something I am so excited for. Please pray for my marriage, and my mission trip this summer, that I will really trust God with the financial side. Thank you.
Hi,
I’m Stephanie K from Northeast Ohio. I’m 22 years old. I just graduated from college in May with a degree that brings me much joy, but will never bring me much income.
I have been realizing and starting to deal with a lot of sins from my past. I have incredible amounts of shame because of all of it. I feel lost, wandering around alone in the wilderness looking for a safe place to stay. I feel too far from redemption and God’s grace. I work at my church and feel like a fraud for all of my mess ups. I have tremendous fear, with just about everything. I wish to live unafraid but don’t know how to get there.
So thankful for this blog posts and any prayers (if I get any) that come my way. Thankful for your hearts, Beth and Lindsee, and the way that you genuinely love us. I hope to be like you ladies one day.
Hi Stephanie,
My name is Dena, I’m 32, and I am also from Ohio. I grew up in Strasburg, and now I am living in Columbus, OH with my husband and our two young sons. Your post really touched my heart. I have also struggled (still struggle?) with shame, fear, and not being able to forgive myself. I won’t go into the long story about me, but my experiences with our Lord convinces me that God loves YOU madly and deeply. I will be praying for you in these next two weeks, especially that He will reveal to you His true feelings about you (they are good!).
These two verses are ones I just did for the Siesta Scripture Memory Team because I needed to seer them into my brain–and heart! Maybe they will speak to you as well.
” I have swept away your sins like a cloud. I have scattered your offenses like the morning mist. Oh, return to me, for I have paid the price to set you free.” (Isaiah 44:22 NLT)
“I—yes, I alone—will blot out your sins for my own sake and will never think of them again. “(Isaiah 43:25 NLT)
Love,
Dena
PS: You are NOT a fraud in your work at church. We are all the same–sinners who have been forgiven by Christ’s blood.
My name is Amanda, I am 24 years old. I have been married for just over 5 years. We have a 3 year old and a 1 year old. I currently work for a bank. I pray to serve God with every inch of my being, and pray to raise my children up in his word. My husband and I have been through some trials over the span of our marriage which led us to getting to know God on a deeper level. What a blessing those trials ended up being. Currently We are unsure of his path for our family regarding my work situation and how he wants us to serve him. We pray to give him our everything and trust in his will. And too clearly guide us on the past he wishes for us to follow. What a blessing this post has been. I appreciate the prayers in advance. The power of prayer is unbeleivable!!
My name is Katie. I’m 20 years old and attending Liberty University. I am seeking to fulfilling God’s calling into the major of psychology and trying to find my way through the calling of becoming a pastor’s wife, which I’m still praying through. (I’m not currently in a relationship in case you were wondering.) I appreciate this post so much because I could use every bit of prayer I can get. I want my passion to burn bright for Christ and not burn out. I struggle with pride and apathy and always comparing myself, but I know that God is faithful and that Truth has been so sweet to me. If not for His grace I’d have no hope; I’m so thankful for His presence in my life.
Hi Katie,
My name is Michelle and I live in Virginia about 3 hours from Liberty University. I am 45 and am the daughter of a pastor, so I saw first hand my mother serve in the role of pastor’s wife for over 30 years. I am honored to pray for you. My oldest son is also 20 years old and a college student, so I am well aware of the stresses and demands on a college student’s life.
I printed your request so that I can pray for specfics for you! My God bless your pursuit of him <3
Hi!
I am Carrie from Summersville, West Virginia and I am 24 years old. I am on full-time staff with Young Life. I spend a majority of my time with high school and middle school students. I share life with them, listen to them, bear with them, and look for opportunities to speak truth in their lives about the Gospel. I am single and living in an area with few and far between 20-something godly men. I desire to be married and have a family some day – but I am also finally in a place of enjoying this season of learning a ton about myself, my Lord, and serving people. I want to continue to persevere in the ministry God has called me to – even though it is often full of obstacles, difficulties, and challenges. Also, I want to continue & MAINTAIN LOVE as Beth said. In the last few months, I have been loving on some teen girls who are dealing with so many difficult circumstances. I sometimes find myself wanting to hold back from learning more stories of these kids b/c of the hurt and pain and burden it adds to life. However, I want to continue to be used for the glory of God in this area. Also, I recently applied for a Masters in Christian Counseling program and I’m waiting to hear back and also seeking the Lord to find out if this is a good time to pursue that desire I believe He has given me.
Thanks for praying!
In Christ <3
My name is Jennifer and I am 25 and live in Northwest Arkansas. I am a teacher and cheerleading coach and I am getting married in 3 months!!! I would love to have prayer that our marriage would stay deeply routed in our faith and that we would grow together and be protected against the enemy’s advances to destroy it.
Also, I have never felt like I had a good group of Christian girlfriends and am feeling this even more so now that I am close to becoming a wife 🙂 I know the importance of having strong friendships with women who are likeminded and I’ve always desired these types of friendships but have never known how to make them. I come across very outgoing but am actually very shy and timid when it comes to making friends… I have a hard time putting myself out there. I would love to be able to meet some great friends to do life with! I attend church regularly and attend a community group with my fiance….I just haven’t met lifelong friends! I would love prayer for me to find girls that I could create solid friendships with.
Hi Jennifer,
I will pray for you!! I live in Central NY and I have a son-in-law who is a science teacher – we sure love our teachers!! I also have a daughter who coaches cheerleading for the younger girls 11 to 13 years of age and I love to help her every chance I get, so we seem to have some common interests. But, most of all, I want to wish you great blessings on your marriage!! I have been married to the same “wonderful” man for 36 years…with lots of prayer GOD truly blessed us, so I cannot wait to pray for you and all the wonderful plans GOD has in store for both of you! I will also pray for your desire to meet great friends, we all need a community of woman to cry, laugh and just share life with. May GOD pour his blessing on you!
Janice
Hello Jennifer, my name is Sandie and I am from Canada.
Your story so touched my heart as my daughter shares your difficulty with shyness. I am honored to pray for you; especially for an intimate relationship with Christ, your new husband and wonderful, caring friendships with strong Christian women. God bless and warm wishes on your upcoming marriage!
Hey Jennifer!
I don’t know how this blog works but I was reading and you were the first request so I saw it. I live in Northwest Arkansas, too! So I just wanted to let you know I’m praying for you! Much love from Arkansas. Love you sister!!
Hello Jennifer! My name is Julie, I live in Fort Smith AR. I have been married for 10 years and have 2 boys. It feels like just yesterday that I had 3 motnhs til my wedding. Congratulations!!! I love that you are longing for solid friendships, these are precious gifts from God. I had a tragic loss of my Mom a little over a year ago and “my girls” have held me tight in there arms. Their prayers, love, support, hugs and kind words have carried me through this last year and I can not imagine where I would have been without them. So my commitment to you is to pray for your upcoming marriage and for God to place some special girls into your life for the next 14 days. God has a perfect plan for you and me, and He will always provide. I will be praying for my new friend and Sister in Christ!
Jeremiah 29:11
Hey Jennifer. I saw your post and immediately connected because of our shared home state. I will keep you in my prayers. I have been married for 25 years and also have benefitted from having God loving friends in my life. Take care kiddo and rest in peace that you are being prayed for!! 🙂