Happy Birthday, Melissa!

My Darling Baby Girl, Happy Birthday!

We miss you so much today! I have you know that Colin Fitzpatrick is the only man on earth I’d love and trust enough to move you off indefinitely without a small fight, especially on your birthday in a family where birthdays are king. Not only do all the Moores and Joneses miss you today, all your coworkers feel like confetti with no place to blow. You are the only one on our staff so far away that we don’t get to observe an official LPM annual celebration lunch. But, we’re all grown-ups here so call us the epitome of flexibility and understanding, as long as you rest assured we’re feeling the absence of your infectious and delightfully fun self.

I’ve already sent your wrap-able gifts and they should arrive right on time today so this is a minuscule ring-box of words to set beside them. Just a few things from the last 24 hours of life as we know it that I think might make you smile on your birthday:

A. Annabeth was dressed so cute at church yesterday that I honestly could not bear it. And when I asked your sister where she’d gotten that plaid skirt with suspenders and a white blouse in such a small size, she said “Her Aunt Melissa sent this to her!” Score, Child. Score. You’ve still got it. And I’m relieved since you are missing your two chief shopping cohorts.

B. Jackson was riding in the car with me from church to lunch yesterday like he usually does, but on this occasion he said something for the very first time: “Bibby, turn that up!” It was a praise CD. A monumental moment in a life, if you ask me. When I turned up the volume, I glanced in the rear view mirror and saw those little wheels rolling in his head and his big blue eyes cut over to the side, brows drawn down, trying to figure out whether or not he knew that Tomlin song. He’s starting to sing along with all sorts of different songs and guess who he requests most of all? David Crowder. Isn’t that a kick? You ought to hear him say his name. So precious you can’t stand it. And, by the way, he’s outgrown his shoes AGAIN. His feet are huge. (Jackson’s, not David Crowder’s. I don’t know if David has big feet or not. I’ll glance at them in January at Passion.)

C. We sang “Before the Throne of God Above” yesterday in the worship service. Knowing how much you love it, I could hardly get the words to come out of my mouth. I kept thinking of the lyrics in reference to the genuine trial by fire you’ve had this year with health issues attacking that little frame. Persevere, my sweet, sweet Child. I pray with all my heart that this is only a season and that God is going to bring you out of it twice the warrior that entered it. Please hasten to the finish, Lord Jesus. Restore Your young servant completely and bear such a harvest that she will one day look back on it as a gift in disguise from Your faithful hand.

Just in case you’ve forgotten any of the words:

Before the throne of God above
I have a strong, a perfect plea:
A great High Priest, whose name is Love,
Who ever lives and pleads for me.

My name is graven on his hands,
My name is written on his heart;
I know that while in heaven he stands
No tongue can bid me thence depart
No tongue can bid me thence depart.

When Satan tempts me to despair,
And tells me of the guilt within,
Upward I look, and see him there
Who made an end of all my sin.

Because a sinless Savior died,
My sinful soul is counted free;
For God, the Just, is satisfied
To look on Him and pardon me
To look on Him and pardon me

Hallelujah! Hallelujah! Praise the One,
Risen Son of God!

Behold him there, the risen Lamb
My perfect, spotless righteousness,
The great unchangeable I am,
The King of glory and of grace!

One in himself, I cannot die
My soul is purchased by his blood
My life is hid with Christ on high,
With Christ, my Savior and my God
With Christ, my Savior and my God

D. Abigail walked the aisle yesterday with her Mommy and Daddy and gave her heart to Jesus. She came up to me just before the service began and said, “Miss Beth, guess what I’m doing today??” And the rest is history. We had the sweetest baptisms yesterday and, all the while, I watched her and her Daddy elbowing each other with anticipation. You would have loved it. I was about to laugh and sob at the same time. I had a feeling she was on the verge of making this decision. You know what a people watcher I am. Last week we took the Lord’s Supper and Abigail was sitting right in front of me. She stared at that tray so hard when it passed her by that she nearly bored a hole in it. I knew something was up. She will stand in that same baptistery where you and your sister were immersed and right at about the same age. Is there anything like growing up in one church? Would we trade those folks in our section for anything on earth??

E. Mr. Parker finally squeaked up the coyote that’s eaten both of their beloved cats and one of their neighbor’s cats in the last few days. The rabbits are so scared of it that they’re nestling right up next to the houses. Geli stares at one out our front windows constantly. Don’t tell me you don’t miss Texas. Where on earth but here would that happen in a suburban neighborhood?

F. Dad and I made homemade buttermilk pancakes and bacon for supper last night. Yep, from a real live recipe with fresh buttermilk and eggs and baking powder and…well, I don’t remember now…just stuff. No mix, is what I’m getting at. It was so good! Dad even told me not to tell him again that I wasn’t a good cook. I’d dang well proved otherwise. How about that? OK, well, I might as well strut my stuff and share the recipe. I got it off the internet and it wasn’t attributed to anybody. I guess there’s no copyright on pancakes.

Beth’s Best Buttermilk Pancakes
(Oh, that made me so happy. It’s a lie though. They’re not mine.)

Makes nine 6-inch pancakes
The key to fluffy pancakes is not to over-mix the batter; it should not be beaten smooth. If serving these pancakes with bacon, reserve half a teaspoon of bacon drippings to grease the griddle instead of butter.

2 cups all-purpose flour

2 teaspoons baking powder

1 teaspoon baking soda

1/2 teaspoon salt

3 tablespoons sugar

2 large eggs, lightly beaten

3 cups buttermilk

4 tablespoons unsalted butter, melted, plus 1/2 teaspoon for griddle

1. Heat griddle to 375°. Whisk together flour, baking powder, baking soda, salt, and sugar in a medium bowl. Add eggs, buttermilk, and 4 tablespoons butter; whisk to combine. Batter should have small to medium lumps.

2. Heat oven to 175°. Test griddle by sprinkling a few drops of water on it. If water bounces and spatters off griddle, it is hot enough. Using a pastry brush, brush remaining 1/2 teaspoon of butter or reserved bacon fat onto griddle. Wipe off excess.

3. Using a 4-ounce ladle, about 1/2 cup, pour pancake batter, in pools 2 inches away from one other. When pancakes have bubbles on top and are slightly dry around edges, about 2 1/2 minutes, flip over. Cook until golden on bottom, about 1 minute.

4. Repeat with remaining batter, keeping finished pancakes on a heatproof plate in oven. Serve warm.

G. Dad’s getting new glasses. These are not from Walgreen’s. I helped him pick them out, praise You, Lord. These should actually sit straight on his nose and we will no longer have to tilt our heads to look him in the eye. He is too handsome for $11 spectacles.

H. (This is Amanda now. I get one letter.)

For my sister on her 27th birthday…

Today we will eat cupcakes in your honor.

And be sad you’re not here to share.

We hope you’ll spend the day doing everything that’s fun and nothing that isn’t. Maybe some home redecorating? Fort building?

Don’t stay home. Grab your car keys and go somewhere fun!

I’m thankful for the day you made me a big sister. I was just about Jackson’s age.

Hopefully I was better at holding you than this.

We’re all wild about you, Melissa! We love you more than we could ever say! Have the happiest birthday ever.
Your family


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  1. 51
    Becca says:

    How AWESOME! Happy Birthday Melissa!!

  2. 52
    destinmimi says:

    Happy Birthday Melissa!! I hope Colin makes it a very special day for you especially since you are away from your mom, sis and rest of the family!

    you are loved,
    Martha in MS

  3. 53
    Carey says:

    Happy Birthday!!!!
    Thanks for how you have planted seed into my life! May it return to you 100 fold!

  4. 54
    Diane says:

    Happy Birthday, Melissa! Praying you have a joyous day!

  5. 55
    Tara says:

    Happy Birthday Melissa! May your day be filled with Jesus and all things wonderful!

    PS. I love the song "Before the Throne of God" too! The lyrics are so powerful and true.

    PSS. Beth, my husband and I just went on vacation to Myrtle Beach and ate some buttermilk pancakes for breakfast one day. I love breakfast and he endures it for my sake. Well, after eating those pancakes, he said, "If we could make pancakes like this, I'd eat them for dinner!" Wahoo! Maybe with your recipe I'll get breakfast meals more often!!!! Thank you for sharing!

  6. 56
    Big Mama says:

    Happy Birthday Melissa! Hope it's a great one!

  7. 57
    Shelia says:

    Now I want to build forts today!! Okay, building them "in spirit" with you…

    Happy Birthday!

  8. 58
    Rebecca says:

    Have a wonderfully blessed birthday!!

    Thanks for sharing life with all of us,

    Happy Candles and Cake Day!!

  9. 59
    bethany says:

    Happy Birthday Sweet Melissa!!!!!!

    We love you very much here in Siestaville and hope that you have a wonderful birthday!

    Bethany in Ca.

  10. 60
    God's girl 68 says:

    Happy Happy Birthday!

    Love & Prayers & Birthday Wishes…

  11. 61
    SoonerAggieMom says:

    MELISSA: Happy Birthday! May your day be blessed beyond measure.

    BETH: Thank you for sharing such a personal post with us. It touched my heart.

  12. 62
    campbell6 says:

    Happy Birthday…..let 'er rip tater chip.

  13. 63
    Anonymous says:

    Happy BD darling girl.

  14. 64
    Anonymous says:

    Happy Birthday my friend! Hope you have an awesome day! you are well loved! What an awesome family you have!… but you know that.


    cindy kelly

  15. 65
    Anonymous says:

    Happy Birthday Siesta!!!!

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    GentillyIzzie says:


  17. 67
    rebekah says:

    Happy Birthday, Melissa! How fun to be a part of the "extended family" in this way on the blog. Love to all of you!


  18. 68
    Karen P. says:

    Happy Birthday, Melissa! Have a blessed day!

  19. 69
    Anonymous says:

    Too sweet, happy birthday Melissa!

  20. 70
    Heather says:

    Happy Birthday Melissa, hope you have a great day and what a sweet post to you! Girl, you are loved!!!

  21. 71
    michellemabell says:

    Happy Birthday Melissa!

    Wishing you a blessed and wonderful day!!!

  22. 72
    Pat from Kansas says:

    Happy 27th Melissa. Have a great and blessed day.

    Pat from Kansas

  23. 73
    Jeannie says:

    Happy Birthday Melissa! I hope this is your best year yet!

    Thank you for your insight and depth that you share on this blog. When I see that a post has been written by you, I get excited because I know it is going to be deep and wide in content. Thanks for sharing your gifts with all of us siestas!

  24. 74
    Kara says:

    Happy Birthday Melissa! Have a great day!

  25. 75
    Pat from Kansas says:


    Melissa, I can't send you a birthday gift, so since I know you like quotes (so do I), I am sending you one of my favorites.

    from Anslem- 11th century monk:
    "I do not seek, O Lord, to penetrate thy depths. I by no means think my intellect equal to them: but I long to understand in some degree thy truth, which my heart believes and loves. For I do not seek to understand that I may believe, but I believe, that I may understand".

    Pat from Kansas

  26. 76
    Fran says:

    I'm just in tears y'all.

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY MELISSA!!!! I pray God's sweetest blessings over you this next year of your life. You are a true gift to us and I'm grateful for "knowing" you.

    Love you!

  27. 77
    The Chappelles says:

    From a gal that is away from her Mama & crew, I can sure appreciate those sentiments… Can say that distance does make the heart grow fonder, for sure.

    Happy Birthday, Melissa. Many blessings…

  28. 78
    Melinda says:

    Popping in from a blog break to wish you a HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Melissa, and praying blessings will continue to pour over you like a rich syrup over buttermilk pancakes! :o)

    Hugs from North Texas,

  29. 79
    Redeemed says:

    Blessed Birthday to you…..

  30. 80
    Diana says:

    Happy Birthday Melissa!
    My God richly bless you as you celebrate the day He enrtusted your parents with the responsibility of raising such a preciuos life!
    May you rejoic and sing, This is the Day that the LORD has made, I will rejoice and be Glad in it!!

    Thank you for letting all of us in siesta world share this with you!

  31. 81
    Anonymous says:

    Happy Birthday Melissa ! I pray that you will have a very blessed day !

    In Christ's Love,

    Jennifer O.
    Southern Wisconsin

    P.s. By the way, when you were at Moody in Chicago, you were only 100miles south of where I live …

  32. 82
    Michele says:

    This feels like reading someone else's card!

    Happy Birthday Melissa!

    So happy for you that you have such a wonderful, loving family that cares for you.

  33. 83
    gg2002 says:



    Judy Baggett
    Irvign, Texas

  34. 84
    BillsGirl says:

    Happy Birthday, Melissa! Thank you to let us have a "sneak peak" into your lives.

    Blessings for a beautiful day!

    Mary Ann
    Woodbury, MN

  35. 85
    Susan D says:

    Hey Melissa, Have a supercalifragilisticexpialidocious kind of day! Happy Birthday. Blessings, SusanD

  36. 86
    Anonymous says:

    Happy Birthday Melissa!
    Kim B. in AZ

  37. 87
    Grammy and Olivia says:

    HaPpY BiRtHdAy MeLiSsA!!!!!

  38. 88
    Anonymous says:

    Happy Birthday, Melissa!

    Beth, thanks for letting us peek into your hearts and lives by sharing such a sweet post.

    Amanda, as always, the pictures are darling. Thanks for sharing them.
    Much love to all of you,
    Patti Hayes

  39. 89
    Jen H. says:

    Happy birthday, Melissa! Now I know there's a reason to like you even more… my precious daughter is having her birthday today, too, turning 14 (yikes!)

    Have a beautiful day!

    Jen H.

  40. 90
    Unreasonable Grace says:

    Have a Blessed Birthday, Melissa!

    Thanks for letting us read your birthday letter!

  41. 91
    roxanne worsham says:

    Hey Melissa!

    They say it's your birthday!
    You're gonna have a good time!!

    You are loved, it is true, by so many!
    Especially by the Creator of this world who breathed HIS very breath into you! How AWESOME is that?!?!

    Enjoy your day! May the Lord continue to bless you and keep you.
    Smile and be of good cheer!

    Much love and many blessings!!

  42. 92
    sammie says:

    Happy Birthday Melissa!!!!

  43. 93
    Becky says:

    Wow! what a day.
    Frist up….Happy B'day Melissa
    'Confettie with no place to blow.' I never heard that one before…… ha-ha-ha- :0>
    Don' beat the batter unitl it is smooth? Hummm and add bacon drippings to the griddle…wow Baby, I gotta try that, thanks Beth.
    and last but not least.
    Amanda…..you lucky pup. I wish I had a sister, I'd take older or younger.

    Have a fun one


  44. 94
    Kathy says:

    Joining in on the chorus, Melissa! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!!!

    Praising God for giving you such an amazing, loving, FUN family!

    What a beautiful post from your Mama and Sis and the cutest niece and nephew to boot!

    May many birthday blessings come your way!

  45. 95
    Holly says:

    Melissa, all I can add is AMEN! Especially to C…praying for you, my Sister in Christ. You know that, right?

    Way to go, Beth!! Recipes cannot be copyrighted, only acknowledged to the author, if you know it.

  46. 96
    JayCee says:

    Beth & Amanda,
    Your way with words astounds me!! Thanks for making us feel like we are part of your family!

    ♫♪Happy birthday to you….Happy birthday to you…Happy birthday, dear Melissa, happy birthday to you!

    ♪♫Happy birthday to you….only one will not do….born again in Christ Jesus…happy birthday to you!

  47. 97
    Cheryl Barker says:

    Happy Birthday, Melissa!! And thanks to you, Beth & Amanda, for sharing your personal birthday love note to Melissa with us all!

  48. 98
    BeBe says:

    We hope that you have a most extraordinary day of celebration! It only comes once a year and is oh so very special.
    We appreciate you and your love of searching out the Scriptures and thus challenging us. I must admit that I usually have to read your posts a time or two, slowly to let it all sink in.
    Thanks for letting us share in your family and your special day.
    …..and many more…….
    BeBe – TX

  49. 99
    Anonymous says:

    Happy Birthday!
    May you feel the love of family, friends and bloggers around the world who pray God's blessings on you!

    Love in Christ,
    Vera Koch

  50. 100
    Anonymous says:

    Happy Birthday Melissa.


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